A typical escort experience may take place at a downtown strip club.
But if you are going to take a date to a steakhouse or bar, how should you deal with the questions asked about you by strangers on the street?
Here’s how to handle that awkward situation.1.
Do you know where the steakhouse is located?2.
Do they have a wait list?3.
Are they wheelchair accessible?4.
Are you a lesbian?
If you have a date, you should be able to say: “I am a friend of the club, and we would like to meet up here.”
You should also note that the club is a public place, so it is your responsibility to be courteous.
But even though you are being polite, don’t hesitate to ask where the venue is located.
If you are not at the club and the question is coming from a stranger, do not hesitate to tell them the location of the steak house.
If the conversation turns to you and your date, be upfront about your identity.
For example, if the person is curious about your sexual orientation, you might be able ask, “Do you have any questions about my sexuality?”
If the person asks about your sex life, you need to be upfront and be prepared to share your personal story.
You might also ask, if you know you are having a sexual relationship, “Would you like to be a part of that relationship?”
If you do not have a partner yet, you can ask your date what they are looking for, and if they want to meet you, you may be able share your interests in romance, sex, and intimacy.
When a stranger asks, “What’s your name?” you can be upfront with them and say, “My name is Michelle.
I am an escort.
I work for a gay escort.”
You might even say, “[I’m] so excited to meet with you.”
This way, the person who has the question will be able know that you are a gay person and that you would be interested in meeting up with them.
You may also be asked, “Are you a model?” if you work for an escort service.
If you are unsure of what your name is, it is okay to say that you don’t know.
You can ask, “[What is your name?]” and say that your name was Michelle.
If your date asks, “[Are you] in love with me?” and you say, I love you, they might not understand why you are so passionate about me and want to get to know me.
If they are curious about you, it might be appropriate to share some personal information, such as how you met your partner and what you do for a living.
You should always be polite and courte, and you should ask your dates to not use your name in the future.
If a stranger does not ask a question, they will assume that you know everything about them and are a professional escort.
The best way to keep your date from feeling uncomfortable is to offer an explanation about why you chose them.
This way the person will feel comfortable and ask about your background.
If a stranger offers an explanation that you have done nothing wrong, you could say, “.
it’s just a date.”
If the stranger continues to ask the same question after you say you did nothing wrong and you have explained that you did not ask anyone to ask anyone, say, “(I know I have done it and have never asked anyone to make anything happen.)”
The next time you encounter the person, ask, “(Are you) still interested in me?
If you want to see me again, let me know.”
You can also ask your friends if they would like you to go with them for a night.
This will give you more information about the person you are meeting.
If someone you know is dating someone else, ask them to bring your date to the club to meet them.
You might also be interested to know that some escorts can provide free services to people in need, such a shelter, or an after-school program, or a hotel.
If these services are offered by the escorts you have booked, the best advice would be to call the clubs and see if they have any free escorts or after-hours programs.
If your date is being pressured by someone to go to a hotel, make sure that they can go to the hotel.
You will probably need to explain that they cannot come back to the car, but they can use the hotel room for the night.
It is also a good idea to call ahead to find out if the hotel has any free after-hour services.
If the person has already booked their own hotel, ask if they are willing to be dropped off at the hotel the next day.
If not, make arrangements to get them to the right hotel.
If an escort is being intimidated or not getting the dates she needs, it’s okay to